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Our desire at REALife Relationship & Love Training is to see teens and young adults have the healthiest and most fulfilling relationships possible. We believe that making good sexual decisions plays a big part in achieving that goal and that a combination of influences and choices start in the pre-teen years! That is why we also want to be a support to parents/guardians, mentors, youth leaders, and educators of all kinds in their efforts to promote sexual integrity in the lives of the students in their world. Our hope is that we can provide some of the support and influences essential to help your students attain the best relationships possible, both now and in the future!

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How to Speak Up in Your Relationship Without Having a Fight
January 26, 2018
The dreaded three words “can we talk,” can immediately stir up defenses. Or maybe those words live on the tip of your tongue, but you just don’t feel like dealing with the spiral downward into the argument…
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When You Just Know…
December 27, 2017
When you just know it’s time to breakup, you start to rationalize a lot of different things in your head. I thought these traits below by My Love Thinks, made some great points.  All the…
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So What’s the Big Deal About STIs Anyway?
October 30, 2017
Good question! For most teens, STDs are like cigarettes. You learn in school and in television ads that smoking can cause lung cancer. But that happens to other people who are much older. Then one…
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The Hardest Part About Dating…
September 14, 2017
One of the hardest parts of dating!? Breaking up… unfortunately it's an inevitable part of dating that no one enjoys, whether you’re the dumper or the dumpee. It’s hard not to wonder if you’re making…
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4 Things You Must Have When Dating
June 9, 2017
So, dating these days is pretty much all over the place. Anything and everything goes and sometimes nothing goes. But I am going to strongly state that, if you really do want to find love…
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The 3 Month Rule in Dating
April 20, 2017
   Waiting is hard… I get it!  When I go around to different schools and talk about healthy dating and relationships and the important character traits to develop in yourself, as well as find in…
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Recognizing an Unhealthy Relationship
October 28, 2016
My best friend from high school was in a relationship with a fun and eccentric guy. I loved hanging out with them because I was always laughing and having a good time. On occasion, I…
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15 Challenges to Make This, “YOUR BEST SUMMER EVER!!”
June 9, 2016
Spend more time out of your bed then in your bed. Sleep outside and invite some friends along to your camp-out and tell them s’mores and an amazing breakfast is involved! (compliments of YOU) Make a…
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Uncomplicate Dating
April 6, 2016
  Dating is Unnecessarily Complicated                                                     by Erik Massenzio Dating does…
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March 22, 2016
3 Tips to Bring Dating Back Shocked and bewildered. That’s how I felt during my freshmen year of college as I watched my peers forego the remnants of the dating script they learned in high…
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Moving Forward in the New Year!
January 5, 2016
With the start of another new year… you know what comes along with that, NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS!!  It’s time to clean house, and maybe that means with your relationships too!?  If you’ve been thinking that…
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I Just Don’t Know What to Do!
July 23, 2015
  Are you feeling pressured or confused about how to make WISE, intentional decisions??  It’s best to know how you’ll handle a high stakes decision or situation BEFORE you find yourself in one.  It doesn’t…
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June 23, 2015
Think you're in-the-know about sex and can figure out fact from fiction? Put your knowledge to the test because we're about to separate fact from fiction and put some sex myths to bed. Here are…
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Hang Ups and Hook Ups
March 3, 2015
Text based relationships are all too familiar these days and can lack depth and be superficial, leaving many young people wondering if this is all there is to be desired.  The pervasiveness of technology has…
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Recognizing Your True Potential
October 15, 2014
We are all unique individuals, each with our own personality.  We all have our individual quirks, talents, goals and dreams! It’s important to take the time to search ourselves and really get to know who…
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Let’s Have a Conversation…
September 2, 2014
Did you know that you can communicate with others without even saying a word?  Think about your body language for a moment, are you confident and look people straight in the eye when talking to…
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